As a pair, the game becomes a guessing game: you both answer at the same time, and the interesting part is not the answer but whether you matched. Ten matched answers in a row is a nicer compliment than any anniversary card.
With other couples in the room it turns into something sharper. Everyone points at one person out of the whole group, so you find out that all six of your friends think you are the one who starts the arguments, which your partner has been saying for a year.
Keep the spicy set for later in the night and only with people who want it. This set stays on the everyday things — who forgets the keys, who apologizes first, who is secretly the difficult one about the thermostat.
All 101 for couples questions
1.Who's most likely to say I love you first
2.Who's most likely to fall asleep during a movie night
3.Who's most likely to say sorry before they know what they did
4.Who's most likely to start the argument in the first place
5.Who's most likely to bring up something from two years ago
6.Who's most likely to forget an anniversary
7.Who's most likely to plan the anniversary three months early
8.Who's most likely to cry at a wedding that is not theirs
9.Who's most likely to leave the dishes in the sink overnight
10.Who's most likely to reorganize a cupboard at midnight
11.Who's most likely to lose the keys
12.Who's most likely to find the keys within ten seconds
13.Who's most likely to turn the heating up when nobody is looking
14.Who's most likely to steal the blanket
15.Who's most likely to take up the whole bed
16.Who's most likely to snore and deny it
17.Who's most likely to hit snooze six times
18.Who's most likely to be cheerful before coffee
19.Who's most likely to talk to the other one through a closed door
20.Who's most likely to send a text from the next room
21.Who's most likely to overthink a message before sending it
22.Who's most likely to read a message and forget to reply
23.Who's most likely to check the phone during a serious conversation
24.Who's most likely to know the other one's password without asking
25.Who's most likely to plan the whole holiday down to the hour
26.Who's most likely to pack the night before the flight
27.Who's most likely to forget the passport
28.Who's most likely to fight about directions in a foreign city
29.Who's most likely to talk to strangers on holiday
30.Who's most likely to take a hundred photos and post one
31.Who's most likely to be in every photo by accident
32.Who's most likely to post the couple photo first
33.Who's most likely to keep the relationship off social media
34.Who's most likely to stalk an ex's profile
35.Who's most likely to be friends with their ex
36.Who's most likely to go quiet instead of saying they are jealous
37.Who's most likely to not notice someone flirting with them
38.Who's most likely to flirt without realizing it
39.Who's most likely to say they are not hungry and then eat half
40.Who's most likely to order dessert for the table
41.Who's most likely to cook something ambitious on a weeknight
42.Who's most likely to burn toast twice in a row
43.Who's most likely to do the dishes without being asked
44.Who's most likely to leave a cup in every room
45.Who's most likely to buy something expensive without saying
46.Who's most likely to check the bank app daily
47.Who's most likely to save for something boring and sensible
48.Who's most likely to book a spontaneous trip
49.Who's most likely to want to move to another country
50.Who's most likely to talk about the future first
51.Who's most likely to bring up getting a pet
52.Who's most likely to name the pet something ridiculous
53.Who's most likely to spoil the pet completely
54.Who's most likely to be the strict parent one day
55.Who's most likely to be the fun parent one day
56.Who's most likely to cry at a baby announcement
57.Who's most likely to get on better with the in-laws
58.Who's most likely to be the favorite at family dinners
59.Who's most likely to tell the embarrassing story in front of family
60.Who's most likely to make the other one laugh in an inappropriate place
61.Who's most likely to sulk quietly instead of saying something
62.Who's most likely to say I'm fine when they are not
63.Who's most likely to notice the other one is upset first
64.Who's most likely to fix an argument with food
65.Who's most likely to write a note and leave it on the fridge
66.Who's most likely to give the better gift
67.Who's most likely to buy a gift the day of
68.Who's most likely to keep every card they were ever given
69.Who's most likely to throw things out ruthlessly
70.Who's most likely to have a drawer that nobody is allowed to open
71.Who's most likely to bring up a wedding idea casually
72.Who's most likely to cry during their own wedding speech
73.Who's most likely to be the one dancing at the wedding
74.Who's most likely to start getting ready when it is time to leave
75.Who's most likely to be waiting by the door with their coat on
76.Who's most likely to change outfits three times
77.Who's most likely to wear the other one's clothes
78.Who's most likely to fall asleep on the sofa by nine
79.Who's most likely to start a series without the other one
80.Who's most likely to pretend they did not start it
81.Who's most likely to fall asleep and ask what happened
82.Who's most likely to remember every detail of how they met
83.Who's most likely to tell the story of how they met wrong
84.Who's most likely to have the better first date story
85.Who's most likely to have been nervous on the first date
86.Who's most likely to make the first move again
87.Who's most likely to say sorry with a snack
88.Who's most likely to win an argument by being calm
89.Who's most likely to be right but say nothing
90.Who's most likely to google something mid-argument
91.Who's most likely to take a personality test and send the result
92.Who's most likely to make the other one try something new
93.Who's most likely to refuse to try anything new ever
94.Who's most likely to do the taxes
95.Who's most likely to call to cancel the subscription
96.Who's most likely to deal with the plumber
97.Who's most likely to hang a shelf badly
98.Who's most likely to hold a grudge about the shelf
99.Who's most likely to still be doing this together in fifty years
100.Who's most likely to say they knew from the first week
101.Who's most likely to be the other one's biggest fan
Who’s most likely to ghost the group chat?
Vote in secret instead
The app turns the pointing into anonymous voting. One person starts a party, everyone joins with a 6-digit PIN from their own phone, and every vote is revealed at once — plus the Gossip Wheel, where the group writes the secrets.
Yes. You both point at the same time on three — at yourself or at the other person. The fun is in the mismatches, and in how quickly you can explain one.
Are these questions good for a date night?
They work well because none of them ask for a confession. You are describing each other, which is easier and usually more revealing than answering direct questions.
What about couples who just started dating?
Start at the top of the list. The early questions are about habits you learn in the first month; the later ones assume you have argued about a thermostat at least once.